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Today was the 1st grade’s Field Day at HRH’s school.  (For those of you new to B-Sting-speak, HRH is how I refer to my daughter.  AKA – Her Royal Highness)

I remember Field Day from my youth.  I hated it.  Every damned year.  It was supposed to be fun, exhilarating, and a great way to burn and run off energy.  Instead, for me, it was a long day of showcasing how uncoordinated, lanky, clumsy, and all-around unathletic I was.  I dreaded it and would try to think of excuses to get out of attending.  That heavy feeling of dank dread hung over me as I prepared HRH for her Field Day.  I kept my dark memories to myself as I slathered her with sunscreen and sent her on her way to school.  Surely, she would have a better experience?  After all, Daddy volunteered this year!  She got to ride to school in his cool, tricked out car.  She got to hug and kiss him whenever she wanted, all day.  And he worked one of the Field Stations!  How cool is that?!?

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In real life, I am probably not much like I seem here.  In fact, those who knew me when I was writing for a less open site, they can probably vouch for that.  I am way more censored now.  ANYONE could read this, so I am more reserved.

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Life has a funny way of saying, “Hey, what the heck. Are you an idiot?” And often, I’ll reply, “Yup;” sometimes when someone is looking… just to make them think twice about sitting next to me… because everyone needs their space. Yes, I’ve been walking in a daze. Let me add to that…for the past year and a half. Half exhausted from my non-sleeping one-year-old (and the whining and tantrums of the six-year-old); half carb-induced because I can’t seem to stop shoveling in chicken nachos. What is it with that stuff? Umm…yes, I’m eating a heap now.

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Once upon a time, before I had kids, I was a good Mom. I was patient and kind…and I certainly didn’t yell. My blood pressure was stable and I looked good – no dark circles, no gray hair…and certainly no need for $50 anti-wrinkle cream. There is a saying that goes, “Fix the things you can and leave the rest to God.” So, instead of spending my money of lipo or a face lift I’m pulling resources to fix the house.

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I watched a news story, tonite, about soft addictions.  According to the news reporter, B. Galvin, soft addictions are “… the little behaviors that probably aren’t going to land you in debt or danger, but they can still impact your life”.  Nice little word play, there.  Is it supposed to be like soft porn?  Not quite as raw and dirty, but sexy, nonetheless?

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